I'm happy with my wife! I married her when we were both witnesses. She grew up as one and I became one at 22. We left the organization together through a lot of turmoil but have stayed together after for a total of 12 years. We now have two great kids which I don't know if we would have had if we were still witnesses.
Tan Hai-chi
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How Many People Are Still Happy That They Married Their Mate?
by minimus ini know of someone that has made no bones about being somewhat unhappily married.
they got married because they "fooled around" and felt it was the "right thing to do".. i wonder how many people are unhappily married?
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The Watchtower and the UN blog
by Tan Hai-chi inif your looking for information on the un scandal i have most of the documents with explaination on this site which has been recently updated.. link.
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Tan Hai-chi
If your looking for information on the Un scandal I have most of the documents with explaination on this site which has been recently updated.
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finding the lord...versus finding yourself
by Aussie Oz ini have noted many who are ex jw but now are 'born again' or have found the 'lord' telling how wonderful life is now.... i mean no disrespect to those who claim this, and are happy, i can understand i guess, leaving the wt but still wanting to serve 'god' but i just can't come at it.
we all know the story... life sucked, left the watchtower, found jesus, lifes great again.... what about my life?
some of you already know i am not christian and in fact are more anti god/religion than ever.. i was depressed, couldn't live up to the rules, faded out fast, left wife, lost kids, lost every single friend of 30 years, lost every material thing save the clothes on my back, lonely hermit for two years, adultery, disfellowshipped, crazy girl friend, one night stands... you might say life went down the toilet and i needed saving from myself.. wrong!.
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Tan Hai-chi
BIG AMEN! The discovery never ends cause consciousness is always expanding. We EVOLVE! Although I believe we are creations and part of the whole. Some people go through life and seem to make all the right decisions like they know what they are doing but they haven't got a clue. The experiences we go through solidify who we are and what we will be. The God of ALL creation, The First One or whatever you want to call him, intended everything to happen as it is happening. Since he is all powerful and the creator, NOTHING happenings without him knowing it. Since creation has free will and we live in duality the challenge is to learn and experience what we need to in order to evolve consciously and move on to higher levels of life. How else can you explain the massive difference in culture, religion etc.. If God intended for all to live in peace then it would happen and perhaps it will when WE are ready.
Religion (all religion and scripture) is a small box in which one can find comfort but eventually the box becomes a prison of misery and pain with broken promises and knifes in the back, limiting your self evolving soul.
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Circuit Overseers
by Eiben Scrood insome circuit overseers leave lasting impressions either for good or bad.
others i barely remember.
three that had the most impact on me were rodricks (that's how it's pronounced, not sure of the spelling), casino and shepherd.
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Tan Hai-chi
They are all under the control of the tower. What they do or say is of that mind set. Casino I think actually lost it. I think there is some Co's in the organization who are thinking they are doing good but realise they have only done damage when looking back. I believe Casino is one of them. Yeah and his wife was a bit ( saying this nicely) crazy.
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Book
by Tan Hai-chi ini'm writing a book related to the watchtower and jehovahs witnesses.
the book will be about ex-jws, their experiences as a witness, leaving the religion and what they believe today.
i'm looking for people who would like to be interviewed.
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Tan Hai-chi
Hello
I'm writing a book related to the Watchtower and Jehovahs witnesses. The book will be about ex-jws, their experiences as a witness, leaving the religion and what they believe today. I'm looking for people who would like to be interviewed. All people will be asked a set of questions. They can use their real name or have a name change. Their are so many different experiences we have all been through as a witness and leaving the religion. I would like to get as many diverse stories as possible.
If you are interested in participating please send an email to me. I can either interview you or send you the questions to answer and send back to me.
Peace
ex-jw
Chuck
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TMS tension myositis syndrome
by Tan Hai-chi inhow many of you suffer from back, neck, leg and knee pain or digestive problems, depression, anxiety or even other symptoms.
i read this book called " the mindbody connection by dr john e. sarnoand his other book call "healing back pain" and have just about healed my back pain.
after reading the book the first time my pain completely disappeared!
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Tan Hai-chi
In Dr. Sarnos books he talks about TMS manifesting itself in different ways. IBS, muscle pain, depression, anxiety, skin rashes, headaches list goes on and the all come on either gradually or very sudden.
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Medical Marijuana
by wha happened? inhas anyone tried it?
if so for what ailment and how effective was it?
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Tan Hai-chi
Hortensia The real bullshit is that it is illegal but I understand what your saying. People want it this is a free country let take a vote! If it were only that easy. MJ is make headway and is at least becoming a decriminalized substance in a lot more states. So hopefully legalization will come soon.
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TMS tension myositis syndrome
by Tan Hai-chi inhow many of you suffer from back, neck, leg and knee pain or digestive problems, depression, anxiety or even other symptoms.
i read this book called " the mindbody connection by dr john e. sarnoand his other book call "healing back pain" and have just about healed my back pain.
after reading the book the first time my pain completely disappeared!
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Tan Hai-chi
Thanks Hort for that information that is very interesting and goes along with what this Dr Sarno is saying. I bet he would like to here about this massage connection. The Brain who can figure it out eh! It's got a mind of it's own! All I can say is my pain has gotten ten times better and now I have days with no pain! I'm off to get a massage!
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Medical Marijuana
by wha happened? inhas anyone tried it?
if so for what ailment and how effective was it?
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Tan Hai-chi
As with anything I think it is a personal choice and people should have the right to make that choice just like they make the choice to drink alcohol. There are plenty of people that can drink alcohol responsibly but there are plenty who can't and shouldn't because they cannot control themselves. I think the same goes with MJ. Some can be fine on it or it even improves them mentally and emotionally while others it makes a mess of their lives. To each his own and I shall not judge you because you drink or smoke but if because you drink or smoke you are affecting other peoples lives because of your behavior then you should not use that which is creating that behavior. Know yourself! I have a few friends that had or still have serious problems with drinking and it has messed up their lives something fierce! Yet it is legal to drink and make that choice to drink even though it has be proven without a doubt that alcohol can KILL or destroy your life! MJ which has no where near the evidence alcohol has of being deadly or destructive is illegal! People are in jail doing more time because of MJ then for Murder, rape etc... As usually everything is ass backward!
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TMS tension myositis syndrome
by Tan Hai-chi inhow many of you suffer from back, neck, leg and knee pain or digestive problems, depression, anxiety or even other symptoms.
i read this book called " the mindbody connection by dr john e. sarnoand his other book call "healing back pain" and have just about healed my back pain.
after reading the book the first time my pain completely disappeared!
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Tan Hai-chi
How many of you suffer from back, neck, leg and knee pain or digestive problems, depression, anxiety or even other symptoms. I read this book called " The Mindbody Connection by Dr John E. Sarnoand his other book call "Healing back pain" and have just about healed my back pain. After reading the book the first time my pain completely disappeared! But it has come back off and on. The book describes how it takes time to completely get rid of it for some who have more repressed emotions. I'm sure this book would help a lot of you who have pain, depression and anxiety from repressed anger and rage in the unconscious mind. I know I sure do from being a witness for 15 years! Plus other issue that I/you have repressed since child hood. Check it out. It is working for me and I'm glad because I have had a lot of pain since I was dfed and now it is starting to heal!